| Friday Evening |
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Foundations: 45"
Program Format
Oneness in marriage |
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First meeting. Discuss goals. 15"
If program were successful for you, how would things be different?
If not successful, what would that mean? |
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| Lecture: |
Handling Conflict 35"
withdrawal and escalation
gender patterns
invalidation
safety and structure
missed meanings
Speaker/Listener Technique
Role Play |
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| Coaching/Practice Time: |
Speaker/Listener Technique 30"
practice |
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Saturday Day |
| Lecture: |
Miscommunication and filters 25" |
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| Coaching/Practice Time: |
Speaker/Listener, low conflict issue 30" |
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| Lecture: |
Solving Problems and Disagreements 30"
Couple Meeting Structure |
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Problem Solving 35" |
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| Lecture: |
Ground Rules for Handling Conflict 20" |
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| Coaching/Practice Time: |
Implementing Ground Rules 15" |
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| Lecture: |
Hidden Agendas/Issues and Events 25" |
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| LUNCH |
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| Coaching/Practice Time: |
Discuss Hidden Agendas Using S/L Technique 30" |
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| Lecture: |
Commitment in Marriage 30" AGAPE love |
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| Lecture: |
Forgiveness 30" |
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| Lecture: |
Preserving Fun, Friendship 30"
and Physical Oneness |
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| Lecture: |
Spiritual Oneness 30" |
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| Couple: |
20" Discuss issues about spiritual and physical intimacy, and how to make special times higher priority. We suggest they pray together sometime in this interval. Coaching/Practice Times are available for consultation, extra practice, etc. |
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| Lecture: |
Use or Lose, Goodbyes 10" |
For Trained PREP Leaders Only
